Tags: salesman win popularity interpersonal tips good popularity is a man of great wealth. With it, his career would be smooth, life. But it doesn't grow on trees, but need your hard work.
First, respect for others
As the saying goes: "much melon melon, reap. "This simple philosophy applied to social interactions, you can say you everywhere respect for others, the returns are people everywhere respect you, respect for others is actually respect yourself.
There is such a funny story: a child does not know how to say hello to active adults, the companion to friendship and solidarity, which is the lack of sense of courtesy. Clever mother to rectify this weakness, he led him to a Valley, surrounded by mountains and shouted: "Hello, Hello. "In response to the Valley:" Hello, Hello. "Mother and child called it:" I love you, I love you. "Needless to say, the Valley is also called:" I love you, I love you. "The children were surprised to ask MOM why, my mother told him:" toward the sky spit, saliva will fall on his face; respect for others, others will respect him. So, whether it is often seen together, or distant and have to be respected everywhere. "Child peggotty to understand the major principles.
Second, helpfulness
People need care and help, in particular the plight in their own treasure in care and help, and put it as the "hungry", as the helper as true friends, best friends.
Karl Marx in the creation of political economics, is economically poorest, Engels often contribute generously to help him escape the economic difficulties. To this end, Marx very grateful. When after the publication of the capital, Marx wrote a letter to represent his heartfelt appreciation: "this thing is possible, I only thanks to you, without you I sacrifice, I absolutely cannot complete the three-volume Magnum Opus. "Two people friendly, thin together up to 40 years. Lenin once praised the two revolutionary teachers of friendship "exceeded all legends in the most beautiful friendship story."
Helping others is not necessarily the material help, simple little effort or care, we can let others have long excited. If you can do to help ever hurt themselves, not only shows your Boda mind, but also to the "gains", as they create a more relaxed human environment.
Third, thankful
Life, the relationship between man and man's most subtle but others kindness or help, if you do not feel, or indifference, result of a variety of resentment to you is possible.
Often think about it: you feel relaxed at work, someone in the weight-bearing for you; you enjoy life give sweetness, someone in you hard work ... Life in social groups in the US, there is always someone worried about you, for your sake. Enjoy the feelings of the dew of people don't do "madaha", because a grateful heart, will enable a more harmonious interpersonal relationships. Emotional ties because of gratitude will be more tough; friendship tree must rely on grateful to nourish, is thriving.
Mr. Wang in their inaugural school very high popularity, authority, asked him why, Wang said: "the ancients said, ' drop ' has become a daily ' commensurate with bubble, even though I do not see this, but I always adhere to" vote with peach, reported by Lee ' everywhere want to others to appreciate others. "Wang Road out of the true essence of the person. Because of the gratitude, you will become a good colleague, and good friends, good family.
IV. co-channel resonance
As the saying goes: "two-heart, the rich people can buy gold; a human heart, without money in General can buy pins. "Acoustics in this law, known as the" same frequency resonance ", which means a Sonic encounter another frequency same Sonic, emits more acoustic oscillations, but encountered frequency different Sonic is not. People, if you can take the initiative to find resonance point, bring your own "intrinsic frequency" and others "intrinsic frequency", can enable people to build friendship, forming a friend, "the same frequency resonance".
Resonance point what? for example: someone else's perspective and action, useful health hobbies, etc., can be your gain friendship resonance point, support, and for this reason, you should respond, you should communicate, in order to achieve harmonization. When people go, smooth sailing, you should be cheering for their pleasure; when someone in trouble, misfortune, you should take other people's difficulties, unfortunate as your own difficulties and unfortunately ... These are "the same frequency resonance".
To a certain school, Qin red and sue for a friend. They often wear similar clothes, often go for a walk, go play ball frequently ... It can be said that the two inseparable, with eating, maintaining a tacit understanding and mutual support; exaggeration to say that two of them is through thick and thin, "resonance" has the same frequency. These two people, not just as a good friend of imagery, but also two people become good friends.
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